i hope everyone remember that everyone start off everything being lousy
i hope everyone remember that other people were forgiving enough to forgive your mistakes when you were lousy and new


so if you meet anyone who are new and lousy
please practice the same thing
that is to have more patience
that is to be more forgiving


don't start accusing and pushing blame
you're hurt and injured
so is other
when you felt that people caused you injuries
do remember that other people injured because of you too



and one most important point to take note is that
"YOU ARE NOT GOOD AT ALL"
be humble and ready to learn even if you're damn zai already



i saw how ZAI people are still being humble and willing to learn as they share their experiences
if you want to be ZAI
your ATTITUDE gotta be ZAI to start with




PS: certain accidents are inevitable, however, prevention could help
PS': stop whining and just do it